My nephew, Lance, was asked by his teacher to do a drawing about what he did over Easter. He drew an image of a young man being brutally bashed by four men, complete with lots of blood, while onlookers and police stood and did nothing. His caption read:
My friend is innocent. He was walking alone. He was badly hurt by four bad men who have no conscience. I am so sad that I didn't even feel happy about Easter. My Uncle is gay, what if this was him??The event to which he refers was the bashing of a young gay man by four cowards while onlookers watched. The police treated him like a criminal, telling him that “his kind” belonged in the park beat. The crime was never reported in the newspapers, and to my knowledge few questions have been asked and no arrests have been made.
Lance constantly floors me with his compassion and maturity. It makes my mind spin to think that a child of seven—very mature for his age, I grant you, but seven nonetheless—understands that gay people are not immoral, dirty or deviant, but deserving of the same level of respect and dignity as everyone else, when many adults don’t understand that.
Understandably he’s now very worried about my personal safety. Kate told me that he made me a special rainbow sword to keep in my pencilcase to fend off would-be attackers.
Ladies and gentlemen, this is why Lance is my hero.














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Hi Uncle Dan! (It's Lance, not Kate by the way...)
It is past midnight, I had to have some insulin because my blood sugar was high. I hate when I am high at night because I can't go back to sleep and then the next day I feel disgusting.
Mum showed me your special post.Thank you very much! I recognised the actor from Mum's Brokeback Mountain poster. She cried so much when Heath Ledger died.
I am glad you are going to learn some moves Uncle Dan, the man that got hurt by those four men was a good, kind person, just like you. He wasn't hurting anyone. He has to have lots of operations and time in hospital now because of these bad men.
I did make you a sword, it was only big enough to fit in your pencil case, but it was out of lego, and it would have looked real in the dark, Mum said you wouldn't be going anywhere in the dark though.Just one thing, my karate teacher told us that if anyone ever tries to hurt us or force us into a car, that we should use a special move in the Adam's Apple area. He said that nearly all bad guys would be in too much pain and shock to do anything after that. So don't forget, OK? (Not that I want you to hurt anyone, but I don't want anyone hurting you!)
It's so nice to think that I'm your hero, but the funniest thing is that you are mine! So I guess we are square then. I love you Uncle Dan, you are the best guy I know.
Love Lance xxx
OMG...Wow! Can you both be my heroes!?! I'm got teary eyed reading the post then the comment! *wipes eyes* :D You're both amazing!
Bry
wow!
Wow Dan, that is beautiful. And the comment too!
I think you're a very lucky man to have such people look out for you... I can only hope the rest of his generation are like him.
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